If you knew her,
you'd never forget her...
Mandy
Dumont met Beryl Tonge in the 1980s at Empingham DTC in Rutland. She found out
that they had gone to the same high school in Essex - except over 30 years
apart. At the time, Beryl was 'old' but she was only 72 when she died, not much
older than Mandy is now. In this article, written by Mandy, she remembers her
friend.
Beryl Tonge was one
of life's characters. She once said, 'You're better off without them, but it
gets a bit boring.' At the time, she was talking about men!
This is possibly why
I thought of her on Valentine's Day this year when I remembered her comment.
There had certainly been men in her past, but probably not completely available
ones. But that's another story...
Beryl had been very
involved with horses and even had her own riding school but, like many others,
had changed to dogs and agility.
She had a lovely,
little lodge cottage near Rutland Water. The kitchen was just built in at the
end of the living room. The outdoor space was lovely natural countryside.
Beryl was very
pleased when they invented Velcro for trainers as that made it easier for her.
Going to shows
We became great friends and often went to shows together.
Normally we drove to
shows in my little Austin Metro hatchback with three people and seven dogs in
it. The back seat divided and could be folded down to leave just a single seat.
We had my lurcher, Spider, and my little terrier and another friend had her
collie-sized crossbreed. Beryl had Lucky, a similar sized black crossbreed along
with assorted other terriers. There were no regulations about restraining dogs
in cars in those days, and one of her terriers would suddenly arrive on the back
of my neck whenever she was scared by a noisy concrete road.
She was competitive
with Lucky, but I can't remember how she did with the terriers.
Beryl was well known
for arriving at a show and opening her door, releasing the loose terriers in all
directions. Once we were all delayed leaving a show when one of the terriers had
to be retrieved from a rabbit hole.
She would also bring
whisky and cigarettes with her, and some were surprised when she didn't
spontaneously combust from the fumes!
Camping
with friends
We had a great group of friends at Empingham who enjoyed training and
competing together in the late 80s. Some of us camped at shows, and Beryl would
drive over to join us for the day. She is the little old lady bending over with
the terrier on her lap in the camping photo.
Something that seems
strange now but was accepted then was that all competitors had to wear their
dog's ring number clearly displayed.
There are more
restrictions nowadays either from the government about travelling with dogs or
from the shows especially for camping and spacing. Gardens weren't heard of
then, but they are a massive improvement, and I certainly wouldn't want to camp
without one.
Some things have
changed about agility, but I am glad that we still have the characters like
Beryl, and it is something that older people can still enjoy.
One thing that hasn't
changed, however, is the alcohol when camping!
And bless
her... and she was right about men.
About
the author...
Mandy Dumont started agility in the 1980s with her Lurcher,
Spider. She blames Dave Ray for her choice of dog as she'd seen him on Pebble
Mill on TV with his lurcher. The dog was definitely not easy, but it taught
Mandy to laugh when things go wrong, a skill which has been very useful since.
They did win out of Elementary.
Mandy then moved on
to collies. She had success with Jazz who took her to Senior as well as lots of
finals. Tiff took her to Olympia, and she went to Crufts with her first terrier,
Spice.
Other dogs followed
including . Her present dogs are Nutty, a difficult terrier now retired, Jet, a
difficult crossbreed and a young collie, Tilly.
Mandy used to live in
Rutland but has moved down South many years ago.
She plans on
continuing to travel to shows and carry on camping for as long as she can and as
long as she still enjoys it.
First published
1st March 2023
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